What is the most important thing we as parents teach our children? To be full of knowledge? To be safe and healthy? Should we focus mostly on having them be “good”…respectful, honest, and kind? Or perhaps train them to be successful in society? While these are all necessary parts of child-rearing, the single most important thing we must teach them is about God and His Word.
“You shall teach them diligently to your sons and shall talk of them when you sit in your house and when you walk by the way and when you lie down and when you rise up.” Deuteronomy 6:7
That is why, even though Jonah is only 12 months old, he has been learning the very first catechism questions (“Who made you, Jonah? 'GOD!'”), and he is listening to songs like, “My God is so Great”. That is why we are reading the Bible to him and teaching him how to pray. Why it is so critical that we teach him how to obey with a cheerful heart, control his anger, and respect when Daddy and Mommy tell him something. It is why we are teaching him the difference between right and wrong in this wicked world.
Why are we doing this? Is it because this is “our religion”? Is it because our church requires these things? Is it so that we can check the right things off a list of what “good parents” teach their children?
No, it is because we are seeking to train his mind and heart to obey and follow Jesus. We are told in the Bible that every person is born a sinner, deserving eternal punishment. We want to point little Jonah's mind and heart the direction of Christ, the only One who can save his sins and grant him eternal life in heaven!
We as parents are helpless to DO anything to secure our children a place in heaven and save them from their sins. So we must diligently train and teach, and most importantly we must PRAY that God will be pleased to give them repentance and faith to trust in His death on the cross for their sins and cause them to LOVE Him with all their heart! That is why my mom recently told me that she prays daily for my husband and I as we raise Jonah. And it is why my husband and I pray daily for Jonah's never-dying soul.
The most important issue in his life, and in the life of every child, is that they come to know Jesus Christ as their Savior. May God be pleased to answer prayers to that end and give all of us as parents wisdom to teach them the ways and Word of God!
“For by grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God, not as a result of works...” Ephesians 2:8





